The first day of school is a big deal. I think I vaguely remember mine, but I moved so often that all the scary-excited 'first days' blend together. School shopping was a big deal for me though, because it was the one thing we did with our dad every single year. We took advantage of the annual tax-free weekend and did school shopping. Since it's our home, we didn't have to be extravagant. My dad dropped a pretty penny on Tina and I when we saw him, but prices have magically warped to insanity since I last school shopped. Thank the good Lord we don't need backpacks, sheesh. We managed to get by with various kinds of paper, a new pack of crayons for each, kid scissors (hopefully a winning pair, as the last attempt was disastrous with both Eden's finger and her bed sheets), glue sticks, and some poster board. I've started keeping a school log, both to avoid any potential red tape and just in case they ever do go to school. Plus it's nice to have. It's also easy, since Ivy's insisted on being in kindergarten too. That seems a fabulous idea to me, although I don't expect her to do the workbooks correctly like Eden. I expect her to be serious and behave about her schooling, though, and she loves it and has done very well.
We told the girls that if they got all A's for their first week of school, we would celebrate with a bus ride! Not a school bus, but a city bus, and we could take a trip and learn all about them. This would be a learning experience for me, too. It's been a long time since I rode a bus, and I was kind of lost when that happened. Josh had a bit more experience.
Sometimes I just write the school activities we do, though it's not at all a school-at-home situation. We don't do seven hours of “school” a day or anything, we just actively include school as part of our day, with a bit more consciousness and direction than we've done before. A few days I've kept a precise log with times and everything, just to see if we tend towards any kind of routines. Days we're at home and days we're out tend to vary, as well as days we have to drive Daddy to work (he usually, but not always, gets a ride with a friend).
The last two days, I've also let each of the girls tell the bedtime story for a change. That was a great experience, and I was quite proud of their very first attempts. Eden told a story about saving the family from an evil witch, and Ivy told a story about going to Faerie Land to get magic flowers for me.
Here are some of the things we tend to do just about every day:
Get up and ready for the day
Art time - lots of scissors and cutting up magazines/paper. We've been doing mosaics and collages, and they make me little 'valentines' that are excellent bookmarks.
Lunch - I've started letting the girls help me make it more often
Clean Up – I always make them pick up after themselves, but as I'm getting back into the habit of FLYing, I'm starting to introduce more chores into their routine.
Gym – often some form of rambunctious play with dad when he gets home, though I still have dance time with them and am trying to get our collective butts moving more when Josh isn't home.
Kitty Time – I have found and been suckered into keeping an abandoned kitty. She is tiny, grey, and trouble. Her name is Cinder. Ivy is far too rough with the poor thing. I'm trying to teach her to be gentle with Cinder, and teach both of them how to take care of her. We've gotten a few books from the library, and I'm learning too. Cats and I have never really been best friends, but I'm trying. I'm afraid my nose may not survive, though.
Here are “field trips” we've taken during the week. I consider any place I take them a learning experience, and also the all-important socialization opportunities. My kids, and especially Eden (though Ivy more so as she's inviting all of Western North Carolina to her birthday party Saturday), talk to absolutely everyone. Everyone. Shopping takes so long, but so does walking down a sidewalk.
Shopping (far too many times, now that I look at it. I need to learn the fine art of getting everything at one time)
Lawyer's Office – twice. They actually learn quite a bit here, about their giant aquarium and the many creatures in it.
Art Gallery - Woolworth Walk
Post office and library – twice.
Capoeira demonstration downtown – Pritchard Park
Bank – Just Eden. Ivy fell asleep and sat with Josh in the car.
That's the week so far. I plan to find different cool things to do each week, which if I did it consistently, would have the added bonus of whittling that off my Mission 101 List. We want to enroll the girls in at least one formal class, and we're long overdue for the martial arts class we promised Eden. We're going to try to find a place where Ivy can participate too, once funds allow. I'm also hoping to start having park time with other kids on occasion. I've just found some old best friends from middle school on Facebook, and they both have young ones. (One of them invited us to her daughter's birthday party, but unfortunately it's at the same time as Ivy's). I'm going to try to get up with them in the near future, and Josh has been wanting to take them to Lake Julian to get out on the paddle boats before the weather turns cold. They've been before with Tina and Lyz, maybe mom, but I've never been, so we'll be doing that soon.